Gravel from EST fresh tank

I'm new to fish keeping and did things all wrong.... I didn't let my tank cycle properly.... Some some of the advise I have been getting was to try and obtain some gravel from and established system and get some live plants

I live on the south edge of Wilmington if anyone local can help I would appreciate it.... Or if it can safely be shipped to me I will pay for gravel and shipping as well....

Need ASAP


Thanks everyone